So what is the secret to Manifesting? it seems to be the buzz word of the last few years.

My video below might help you figure that out, have a watch and then read on.

It’s hard to hear people say that the things you are manifesting or experiencing in your life right now are all because of you.

That you made them happen.

That you are manifesting them.

When we read things like this from so called manifestation experts it’s like a kick in the teeth quite frankly.

There is no way that you want to attract debt, being over-weight, bad relationships, sickness

All the bad things that are happening in your life, sadness, feeling stuck.

Right?

How on earth can we believe that it’s all down to us, that we did it, that we wanted this?

The truth is you didn’t want it but you did help to create it.

Before you get upset hear me out……..

I often hear people say things like “I am so broke” or “I only have to look at a cake and I put on 2kgs”.

My metabolism is so slow I can’t lose weight even if I tried.

Why is it so hard for me to do anything?

I am in so much debt right now.

It seems so easy for everyone else.

Why is life so hard for me?

Why can’t I find my soul mate?

I am so stupid.

I don’t deserve to be successful.

These things that you say to yourself, to other people, even if they are only thoughts in your head are the things that will happen in your life over and over again.

If you are constantly saying that things are hard then that is what the universe hears and that is what you will get.

Like attracts like.

Its like the famous saying misery enjoys company.

If you continue to tell yourself that manifesting is difficult, that life is a struggle, that your goals are hard to achieve then guess what? That is what you will get and that is what you will continue to get until you change the thought process and the pattern of how you speak about it.

Right now, in this very moment, you can make the decision to change the things that you say to yourself.

You can start to tell yourself that life is good, that you can do it, that you are enough, that you can be successful, that life is not a struggle.

It is SO easy to shift the thinking and to start the change.

You can allow all the things that you want to come to you or you can continue to block them out with the words that you speak and the thoughts that you think.

Little by little, day by day become aware of what you are thinking and saying – being mindful is the first step to changing.

It is the first step to re-wiring your thoughts, re-wiring your patterns, re-wiring what you say to yourself on a daily basis.

Start to be more positive.

Say you can do it.

That you do deserve it.

Change it to ” I do have enough money” or “I am the perfect weight”.

Yes it will feel fake and a bit weird at first BUT the more you do it the more you will start to believe it and the more you will start to change it.

Manifestation is all in your head, it’s all in your thoughts, it’s all in your actions – speak it, believe it, change it.

That is the secret to manifesting.

If you still need some help check out my latest book.

Its a gratitude and scripting journal that is perfect for this very thing – check it out here.