I am not good enough………………..

She will always be better than me at that.

I cant say what I need to say like she can, no-one will listen to me.

I dont have the skills that she does.

She is so loud and happy and bubbly, that’s not me, I cant be like that.

I will never be able to do that.

She is an extrovert, I am an introvert, that makes me feel so uncomfortable.

I am not good at putting myself out there like she does.

She has the perfect life, its easier for her, I don’t have that.

How can I say that when I am not actually living it in real life.

Why would anyone want to listen to anything that I have to say, I’m no expert on anything.

She totally has her shit together, unlike me, my life is a total mess.

I am not good enough

Am I?

Could I be good enough?

Can I do that?

Maybe I can put myself out there like she does?

Being an introvert should not make a difference really should it?

I do have good skills to say what I want to say, can I actually say it?

Yes, Yes, Yes

Oh my goodness, YES !!!!!!!!!! yes you can say it, yes you can do it, yes you absolutely should.

YOU have so many things to say that people need to hear.

You can do things that no-one else can do, you are unique, there is only one of you.

Only you can bring YOUR own spin on things.

The way you say things is different to how others say things.

The things you can create are different to the way she can.

You know many, many things that she does not, that he does not, that lots of others do not.

Your authenticity will shine through, your story needs to be heard.

You are the only one of you

The trick to all of life, in all area’s, is to not compare.

Don’t ever judge your journey by someone else’s journey.

Your life, your happiness, your experiences, your dreams, your abilities – they are different to everyone else’s.

“Comparison is the thief of joy”
Theodore Roosevelt

It does not matter who you are, you will always be able to find someone who has already done what you want to.

There will always be someone else who is more successful than you are RIGHT NOW!!!

Someone who is richer, has more things, more qualifications, more of a voice.

BUT……………

They started where you are right now.

In the beginning they had all the same worries, and fears, and were just as scared.

Everyone that you see, that you look up to, that you dream of being, they are just people.

Normal people who all had to start somewhere.

They have insecurities just like you do.

I want you to ask yourself something………..

When you say I am not good enough, I will never be good enough.

Compared to who, compared to what?

Who makes the comparison rules?

What are you trying to measure yourself against?

Who is it that’s judging you?

YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE JUDGING YOU

Always remember that you are amazing, you always were.

You can do it, you always could.

The skills you have are valid ones, you know enough.

Your life experience needs to be heard, people need your help, people need to hear what you have to tell them.

You are good enough, right here and right now.

Now stand up, share you voice, share your thoughts, share your skills, share your experiences.

So next time you ask yourself – Am I Good Enough?

YES YOU ARE, YOU ALWAYS WERE, YOU ALWAYS WILL BE

What are you waiting for? Go and live your vision, you’ve got this.

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