Are you an over-giver?
Before you can attract what it is that you want to you, you need to feel worthy, deserving and most of all SAFE to receive and have it.
So I have a series of questions for you which I would love you to journal on.
Spend some time right now – or come back to these when you have the time to really look at them, really feel and see the questions and answer them fully and completely.
Journal on this:
Fully answer these questions and write whatever comes up for you when you answer them:
- Do you give more than you receive in any situation? How does this show up for you?
- Do you give yourself away in relationship? How do you do this?
- Do you feel uncomfortable when a friend offers to help with something because you don’t want to put them out? Why?
- Do you feel awkward or find it hard to take a compliment.? Why does this make you feel uncomfortable?
- Are you an over-carer, do you worry about the happiness and wellbeing of your people, your family, your husband, your children, your friends, while putting your own needs last? Why do you think this is?
- Does Impostor syndrome creep in when you try and up level your life and yourself in any way? Which looks like what if I can’t do XX, what if I don’t know enough, what if I disappoint people? How does this make you feel?
- Are you used to doing everything yourself because you have had to rely on you and you only all your life? Give some examples and why you think this happened.
All of the above are indicators that you feel more comfortable giving than receiving, that you are an over-giver.
And there is nothing wring with this if you are happy and comfortable being an over-giver. I have bene one all of my life so I am talking from experience BUT nothing changed in my life until I learnt how to give AND receive in equal measure.
You can only manifest and attract what is a vibrational match to your subconscious patterns and what makes you feel safe and what feels familiar to you. If you are TRYING to manifest and it is not working for you, or if you are trying to manifest something BIG and finding that it feels like just too much chances are you energetically feel that you don’t deserve it or cant have it.
Feeing unworthy, undeserving or simply unfamiliar with what it is that you want to receive is one of the main reasons why we don’t get the results and love in the abundance that we want to live in.
Its not the lack of strategy or the lack of doing certain things like meditation or reiki or energy work.
Its the energy of not feeling good enough for it, the embodying of it, the KNOWING that you deserve it and CAN have it
It’s time that you get to HAVE as much as you give.
The universe is all about balance, and it’s waiting for you to break through your old beliefs and your old subconscious patterns and open the door to full on abundance.
Abundance in everything is your birth right – its time you claimed it.
Have it all
It starts with you believing that you are enough.
I can help – I have been where you are – I know from experience how hard it can be to change these beliefs. I know that being in my energy, taking on my beliefs, being in my world can change everything because I’ve seen it happen time and time again. Start by joining my Facebook inner circle here and subscribing to my YouTube channel here and let me change you from the inside out.
Your abundant future self with thank you.